“Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” [Matt. 19:6] In any “red-lettered” Bible version, we would see that the above is a direct word from the mouth of the Lord Jesus Christ. This is talking about the bond of marriage. Heaven’s design …
Articles by Helpthefamily
I am the Helmsman/Team Leader of Help for the Family Ministry, Lagos, Nigeria
Deep in the heart of everyone going into marriage relationship is great hope (or, do we call it desire?) for blessed, blissful, joyful, funfull and fulfilling marital life. Honestly, it would be an understatement to agree that that’s logical. If married, can you remember how very thrilled and enthusiastic you were towards your wedding day? …
That love is the greatest platform for growing true and lasting human relationship, especially marriage, cannot be over-emphasized. Nevertheless, that true and unfeigned love is a rare commodity in many homes in our world is incontrovertible. I realize that one of the most abused and hypocritical though common statement between relating partners is “I love …
I believe this should be a follow-up to my message titled “How Heart-deep is Your Love”. Have you received that? If not, ask, and you shall receive it! That love is a fundamental requirement in any marriage is doubtless. But there are all kinds of “love” out there! – like, “I love my car”, “I …
Is it biblically right for a Christian to do family planning (i.e. take medical prescription to prevent conception / child birth)? This is one question I have had to confront quite a number of times in our Couples’ meetings. I have had to douse much needless stress on this matter, hopefully to the satisfaction of …
We all have a background. Whereas some of the features of our background could be very helpful in the making of our own marriage to be enjoyable and successful, on the other hand, many of us have been exposed to some others that, if not decisively dealt with, could deal the hurtful blow on our …
There are different seasons of man’s life. We have: The Toddler Age The Childhood Age The Teenage Age The Youthful Age The Adulthood Age The Oldie Age Each of these Ages has its own peculiar features and contributory implications on man’s whole lifespan. I want to address you as a TEENAGER. I hope I …
A “BROKEN HEART” IS VERY IMPORTANT IN MARRIAGE. “Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well advised is wisdom.” (Proverbs 13:10) “By humility and the fear of the LORD are riches, and honour, and life.” (Proverbs 22:4) A lot of marriages have suffered and many are presently suffering all kinds of avoidable …
Every wise builder of a house goes for rock-solidness when it comes to the nature of the foundation upon which to build. It will be folly and highly suicidal to build upon sand. Surprisingly, not a few yet opt for this sort of faulty foundation! No wonder the many collapsed building, often with great loss …
Oh yes, it is! But it’s no longer the fashion!! How man changes!!! Who cares about remaining a virgin until marriage? Anybody? Well even if you don’t, the Almighty God cares! And I care, too! My friend out there let me bother you with this “thorny” issue this time around. Thorny in the sense that …